deep play

EVERY WEEK, I send out a writing tip and three soul-inviting prompts as inspiration for you to freewrite, either alone with your timer or in a gathering of writer friends. The resulting deep play opens up whole new landscapes of creative possibility for our writing and our lives. If you are new to this kind of writing practice, have a look at the freewriting principles. And to take your writing to the next level, check out the mentoring sessions I offer, which are helpful whether you are working on a book or just beginning to find your voice.   more >

WRITING TIP: Forget the marketplace—for now or forever

In a culture that exhalts product and accomplishment over everything, writers naturally absorb this habit and think that “real” writing gets published and shared widely. That might be true for business books and how-to manuals, but when it comes to writing what is real and moving to us, nothing could be further than the truth. What gets written for the marketplace is often very different from what our deep selves are longing to articulate. As Ursula Leguin put it, “True work is done for the sake of doing it. What is to be done with it afterwards is another matter, another job. A story rises from the springs of creation, from the pure will to be; it tells itself; it takes its own course, finds its own way, its own words; and the writer’s job is to be its medium.”

Everything disappears…

Everything disappears

Afraid to tell you…

Afraid to tell you...

The dark moon rises…

the dark moon rises

WRITING TIP: Be the most sublime fool

“If you want to write, if you want to create, you must be the most sublime fool that God ever turned out and sent rambling. You must write every single day of your life. You must read dreadful dumb books and glorious books, and let them wrestle in beautiful fights inside your head, vulgar one moment, brilliant the next. You must lurk in libraries and climb the stacks like ladders to sniff books like perfumes and wear books like hats upon your crazy heads. I wish you a wrestling match with your Creative Muse that will last a lifetime. I wish craziness and foolishness and madness upon you. May you live with hysteria, and out of it make fine stories — science fiction or otherwise. Which finally means, may you be in love every day for the next 20,000 days. And out of that love, remake a world.” —Ray Bradbury

No need to fight or flee…

No need to fight or flee

Interrupt the thought…

Interrupt the thought...

If I wasn’t afraid of making a mistake…

If I wasn’t afraid of making a mistake

WRITING TIP: Write the hard stuff

“I learned not to look away at the moment when I should be paying the most attention,” said author Matthew Thomas in a New York Times interview. “The closer I got to the heart of a scene, to the really difficult material to write, the emotionally challenging stuff or the exchange in which the conflict is made most explicit, the more I’d look for a way out of writing it. This was out of fear, obviously, because you don’t want to run up against your limitations in craft, intelligence or heart. It’s much easier to duck the really vital material, but it kills what you’re writing to do so, kills it instantly.”

I’ve been offered windows…

I've been offered windows...

Don’t look away…

Don't look away...

I touch the edge…

I touch the edge...

WRITING TIP: Jump into the rabbit hole

“If I love a book, it first strikes my heart. The mind comes in later, as I start to articulate why it is I like it,” says Azar Nafisi. “Both experiences are joyous, but you need that initial emotional link. It’s why I don’t like theories that espouse interrogation as our primary method of engaging with books. It’s as though Alice — instead of just running after the white rabbit and jumping into the hole — would first say, Why is this rabbit white? Why is it running so fast? Should I be following it? That way, she would never get to Wonderland.” Likewise, engaging the judging, questioning mind while attempting to write something that comes from a deeper place than intellect will keep you from creating the wonderland you are meant to create. Try letting go of all that and just jump into the rabbit hole.

I let go and jumped…

I let go and jumped...

Bitten by the madness…

Bitten by the madness...

The things I’m not supposed to think…

The things I'm not supposed to think...

WRITING TIP: Tell the story only you can tell

Each of us occupies a singular place in the human story. We are the only ones in the history of the universe living at this time and place with these quirks and this personal history, body and temperament. That means we have a perspective that no one else has, and with that, a piece of the wisdom pie. What does that mean for our writing? Good to listen to author Neil Gaiman on this one: “Start telling the stories that only you can tell, because there’ll always be better writers than you and there’ll always be smarter writers than you. There will always be people who are much better at doing this or doing that – but you are the only you.” 

Immersion retreat in Writing from the Soul

This 4-day retreat in a mountain eco-resort will jump start or deepen your writing practice. In an atmosphere of warmth and non-judgement, free of critical evaluation, we will invite each other to be daring and self-revealing, loosening the grip of our critical minds so that expression can flow freely. Whether you’re a seasoned writer working on a book or just want to use writing as a personal process of self-discovery, this immersion into writing as deep play will open up a whole new landscape of possibilities for your writing and your life. Click here for details.

The story only I can tell…

The story only I can tell...

A brief history of quirks…

A brief history of quirks...

The illusion of sameness…

The illusion of sameness

WRITING TIP: Overthrow the taboos

Freewriting for your eyes only and keeping those writings hidden can be an important step toward developing the courage to speak dangerous things in public. It is the job of the writer to articulate what others are only vaguely thinking or feeling; to talk openly about those things others fear to say. As Anais Nin put it: “There is a great danger for the writer, perhaps the greatest one of all: his consciousness of the multiple taboos society has imposed on literature, and his inner censor.… It is surprising how well one writes if one thinks no one will read it. This honesty, this absence of posturing, is a most fecund source of material. The writer’s task is to overthrow the taboos rather than accept them.”

It would take courage to tell…

It would take courage to tell...

Beneath the taboo…

Beneath the taboo...

The solace of everyday habits…

The solace of everyday habits

WRITING TIP: Find the poetry in yourself

“FOR ME, POETRY IS deep soul-talk, a transformative energy, one of the most powerful means to enlarge one’s presence in the world,” says Luis Rodriguez, the current poet-laureate of Los Angeles. Luis ought to know: writing poetry launched him into a life that he couldn’t have dreamed of when he was a teenage gang member looking for meaning and belonging. He began by writing about his own life and found in doing this truths and insights that eventually made him a leader — first in his own community, then in wider and wider circles — which led to last year’s bid for Governor of California on the Green Party ticket. To follow Luis’s inspiration, try listening to EB White — “Advice to young writers who want to get ahead without annoying delays: don’t write about Man, write about a man. [or a woman].”

Writing from the Soul Immersion Retreat

JOIN ME for this immersion into the powerful process of Writing from the Soul. This 4-day retreat in a mountain eco-resort will jump start or deepen your writing practice. Sometimes we will gather around a table in a rustic lodge — other times, alongside a river or in a candle-lit mountain cave — to do timed writings from evocative prompts and read our work aloud. In an atmosphere of warmth and non-judgement, free of critical evaluation, we will invite each other to be daring and self-revealing, loosening the grip of our critical minds so that expression can flow freely. Whether you’re a seasoned writer working on a book or just want to use writing as a personal process of self-discovery, this immersion into writing as deep play will open up a whole new landscape of possibilities for your writing and your life. $300 including meals and accommodations (3 nights). Interested? Contact me for details.

The breeze wants to kiss…

The breeze wants to kiss...

Singing in the dark…

Singing in the dark...

Inside my body…

Inside my body...

WRITING TIP: Contact your wild soul

freewritingThere is a part of all of us that is untamed by life — sovereign as a lion. To contact this part of us in our writing produces power and originality, insight and depth. But how do we contact it? We can take a clue from Parker Palmer, who wrote, “The soul is like a wild animal – tough, resilient, savvy, self-sufficient, and yet exceedingly shy. If we want to see a wild animal, the last thing we should do is to go crashing through the woods, shouting for the creature to come out. But if we are willing to walk quietly into the woods and sit silently for an hour or two at the base of a tree, the creature we are waiting for may well emerge, and out of the corner of an eye we will catch a glimpse of the precious wildness we seek.”

Knowing less, listening more…

Knowing less, listening more

Turn down the volume…

Turn down the volume

Alone with the sky…

Alone with the sky

WRITING TIP: Follow what has energy. You don’t need to know why.

freewritingLike life, freewriting can seem chaotic and overabundant, but go through a pile of them, underline the gems, and you will find recurring themes, notions and obsessions. These are the subject areas that have energy for you. You don’t have to justify them — just follow them without thinking too much about it. Get the intellect involved and you’ll soon be overwhelmed by all the worthy possibilities, both in your freewrites and in your life. In his book Steal Like an Artist, Austin Kleon said it well: “In this age of information abundance and overload, those who get ahead will be the folks who figure out what to leave out so they can concentrate on what’s really important to them. Nothing is more paralyzing than the idea of limitless possibilities.”

The dream I won’t listen to…

The dream I won't listen to...

Sleep in the cold rain…

Sleep in the cold rain...

Risk everything…

risk everything

WRITING TIP: The purpose of writing

freewriting“I realized how far I was from believing in God, in human beings, or in anything at all. I doubted art. What was it for? If it was to entertain people who were afraid of waking up, I was not interested in it. If it was a means of succeeding economically, I was not interested. If it was an activity taken on by my ego to exalt itself, I was not interested. If I had to be the jester for those in power, those who poison the planet and leave millions of people starving, I was not interested. What then was the purpose of art? After a crisis so profound that it led me to think of suicide, I arrived at the conclusion that the purpose of art was to heal.” –Alejandro Jodorowsky, film director, in Parabola Magazine

Something has to die…

Something has to die...

My crippling idealism…

My crippling idealism..

Surprised by joy…

Surprised by joy...